Are you adopting or thinking of adopting? Sad that you will not be able to have a nursing relationship with your child? This post is for you! My friend Amber (Let It Be Glory) is back this week to share a little more with us. Today she is sharing about induced lactation, something I had never heard of before I met her. 🙂
After nursing my first child for 14 months and absolutely loving it, I knew that I was hooked on breastfeeding and wanted to nurse ALL my future children. However, when we decided to adopt our second child, you can imagine my sadness when I thought I would not be able to breastfeed him or her. Then I learned about induced lactation! I learned that I could induce lactation and cause my body to produce breast milk just as if I had given birth!
I knew it was going to be a lot of work to induce lactation and that there was also the risk that I wouldn’t produce very much milk or that the baby we adopted would be too old to nurse by the time we were able to bring him or her home. But, I knew that I had to give it a try.
My Favorite Advantages of Breastfeeding
1. You always have your baby’s food on hand!
Forget worrying about how many bottles you have to pack when you go out or how you are going to keep them cold/ warm them up! Breast milk is always on hand and always the perfect temperature! This is an especially great advantage when you are out and about or in the middle of the night! It’s alot easier to wake up and not have to worry about warming up baby’s bottle while you’re half asleep!
2. It’s Cheaper!
The cost of formula for 12 months is approximately $1000 – $1500 depending on where you live. But, no matter where you live, breast milk is FREE!
3. It Burns Calories!
Lots of calories are burned while breastfeeding. It takes approximately 20 calories to produce an ounce of milk. Also, the uterus of a breastfeeding mother shrinks to its pre-pregnancy size more quickly while breastfeeding, which means you get into your pre-pregnancy clothes more quickly!
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4. It’s Better for Baby!
Breastfed babies tend to have less incidence of or less pronounced symptoms of ear infections, respiratory illness, allergies, diarrhea, and vomiting and experience better overall health. IQ levels are also an average of 8 points higher in children who were breastfed.
5. It’s the Perfect Food!
Breast milk is constantly changing in its composition to meet the changing needs of the baby. It has the exact combination of protein, fats, vitamins, minerals, enzymes, and sugars needed for the human infant at various stages of his growth. And it’s all provided in a form more easily digested than infant formula. Breast milk also contains antibodies that help your baby fight off viruses and bacteria.
6. It’s Healthy for Mom!
Breastfeeding appears to reduce the mother’s risk of developing osteoporosis in later years. Although mothers experience bone-mineral loss during breastfeeding, their mineral density is replenished and even increased after lactation. Diabetic women improve their health by breastfeeding. Not only do nursing infants have increased protection from juvenile diabetes, the amount of insulin that the mother requires postpartum goes down.Women who lactate for a total of two or more years reduce their chances of developing breast cancer by 24 percent and have been shown to be less likely to develop uterine, endometrial or ovarian cancer.
The benefits of breastfeeding outweighed the risk and work involved in inducing lactation and in February 2012 I began the process of building a milk supply which involved being on a combination of a birth control pill and a drug called domperidone for 5 months. In July of 2012 I began pumping every two hours during the day and twice at night. I did this for three months straight before we were finally able to bring our daughter home. When she came home in October of 2012 at 6 months old I was producing 35 ounces a day!! Despite being bottle fed for the first six months of her life I was able to train her to breastfeed after just a few weeks home!! She became an exclusively breastfed baby and we enjoyed our breastfeeding relationship until she was 16 months old. You can read the whole story with more details here.
The above benefits of breastfeeding are what initially motivated me to try induced lactation, but once we brought our daughter home I realized there is a whole other set of benefits to nursing an adopted child. Not only was the nutrition content of breast milk especially beneficial to her after being fed cows milk with sugar for her first months of life, but there was also an emotional healing that took place with our nursing relationship. Nursing helped my daughter learn to trust and love me after being abandoned by others in the past. It also helped me to bond with my daughter more quickly.
With baby #3 due this Spring, I can’t wait to once again begin breastfeeding! Thankfully, this time I don’t have to induce lactation to do so. It was worth it but a lot of work! =)
To me breastfeeding brings with it sweet sweet memories of nursing my two babies. I LOVED breastfeeding and wish that every woman could have as great an experience as I have had! But whether you bottle feed or breast feed, whether you gave breastfeeding a shot or never tried at all, whether you weaned your baby at one month or at three years, I hope more than anything that you are enjoying your children and treasuring every sweet memory you make with them! They grow up fast!
Thanks, Amber for sharing your story of induced lactation and breastfeeding your adopted baby with us! You can read about adoption, induced lactation, and surrogate pregnancy on Amber’s blog.
Heather says
This was very interesting. I’m impressed she worked so hard to induce lactation, good for her.
Kim @ WampumHome says
All great things come with hard work. What an amazing story and NO.. I had no idea there was even such a thing as induced lactation. I was a teenage mom and tried breast feeding but had little understanding or patience.. Knowledge was the only real regret I had being a young mom.
TheBargainBabe says
That’s amazing that she was able to breastfeed their adopted child. What a wonderful bonding experience for them both.
missykierstead says
That must have been extremely helpful for the bonding process. I didn’t know about induced lactation. Interesting post. Thanks for sharing!
Amber says
It was such a huge help in the bonding process! So worth the effort! =)
Alicia says
Wow!! Its amazing what the human body can do. I am soo happy she decided to adopt but I am equally happy that she could breastfeed. This blog post is so touching! Such a wonderful family!
Rebekah says
They are a wonderful family and great friends! Amber has lots of great posts on her blog as well, be sure to go check it out! 🙂
Amber says
Alicia, it really is amazing what the human body can do!! God has designed our body’s in such a perfect way!
uepianogirl says
I am a breastfeeding mother as well. I have heard of induced lactation but never knew anyone who did it. I’m so glad it worked out! I’m sure the emotional bond was amazing;)
Tammy @ creativekkids.com says
Wow! I’m so impressed with this story, and your daughter is adorable! I think nursing is the best and does provide such a bond! I am glad that you were able to succeed at it.
Amber says
Thank you, Tammy! I’m also thankful that we were able to succeed at it. When I started the process of inducing lactation I knew there was a chance that my body wouldn’t produce much milk and/or that our baby would be too old to breastfeed by the time brought her home. I’m thankful for the way things worked out and feel blessed! And thank you, we think she’s adorable too but we’re pretty biased. 😉
creativekkids says
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Jill @ Called To Be A Mom says
I loved that you talked about breastfeeding an adopted child. We are hoping to adopt our last child and I am very much for this! I’m glad to see others talking about it as well!
Rebekah says
Adoption is a beautiful thing! I don’t know if you have read any of Ina May Gaskin’s books, but she has one on breastfeeding that talk quite a bit about induced lactation, you may find it interesting.
Kim says
What a beautiful thing she did for her precious daughter. Thank you for sharing!
Rebekah says
Isn’t it great! I don’t think many women who adopt know about induced lactation, or that there is even another option besides formula feeding their babies.
Melissa says
I loved nursing too! My daughter nursed for 13 months before she self weaned.
Naya @ Lactivist in Louboutins says
What a great and selfless thing for her to do for her adopted baby! I love that she didn’t have the “all or nothing” mindset about breastfeeding – any amount of breastmilk is a great thing. Thanks for sharing her story!
Rebekah says
You’re welcome!! I wish many more women who were looking into adoption knew that there was a way to induce lactation and nurse their adopted child.