Why You Can Rejoice in Your Imperfections
{I’m guest posting over at Busy Being Blessed as part of the #imperfectmom confessional this week. I’m sharing my heart and four reasons I’ve been rejoicing in the imperfections that have been pointed out to me in my career as a momma, either by the Holy Spirit or by my children. I hope you are encouraged as you read this and head over to BBB to get the rest of the post.}
Dear Momma,
Today I want to share some of my imperfections with you.
I yell. A lot. Sometimes it seems that the only way that the boys will listen is if there is yelling involved.
I lose my patience easily.
I discipline out of anger.
I have a hard time apologizing.
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Is it hard to admit these things to you? You had better believe it is! I want to give excuses for each and every one of those imperfections that I have listed. But I’m not going to today. Instead I’m going to hope that you, like me, are imperfect. And that today we can offer each other support and encouragement.
The season of littles is HARD.
Remembering how great God is can be hard when you are tired, the toddler is having his fifteenth meltdown over the same tractor-trailer that won’t stay connected to the tractor, you haven’t been able to get in those much-needed minutes with Jesus, your coffee is cold, it feels like the house is never, ever clean and it is only 9:33 AM.
We I deal with those frustrations by yelling and allowing my anger to control my actions. {Do you know how many talks I have had lately with my five-year old about controlling his anger lately…and then I go and lose my temper…}
Maybe this is the moment the Father will touch our child's heart and bring them to an understanding that with Him we are lost and can do nothing. #christianmotherhood #motherhood Click To TweetLet’s think on this for a few minutes: maybe these trials are cause for rejoicing.
Maybe this point in time when we feel like we just can’t go on is the moment the Father will touch our kindergartner’s heart and bring them to an understanding that with Him we are lost and can do nothing.
Maybe by talking over our imperfections with our littles, by apologizing and sharing how we are working out our faith, they will see how having Christ on our side, in us, helps us to be stronger and will eventually perfect us.
Four Reasons Why You Can Rejoice in Your Imperfections
1. Rejoice that you are aware of your imperfections.
The first step to fixing any problem is being aware that the problem exists. If you are aware of your imperfections than I would like to think that you have been allowing the Holy Spirit to have his way in your heart. He has been speaking to you about the issue and you have responded by accepting His nudging and are on the way to fixing, perfecting and refining your life.
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Faith says
I totally have a hard time apologizing. I try to make it a habit…especially with Hubby when it’s obvious we’re having an argument in front of the kids. But it’s still hard! Thank goodness for that Holy Spirit! Thanks for the encouragement!
Rebekah says
This is totally me too!! I’m so glad for new mercies every day!
Sarah Hardee says
Very honest and heartfelt post. As hard as it is to write, this it the stuff that really builds bridges and encourages people. ๐
Rebekah says
Thanks, Sarah!! I know I always love reading honest posts from others because they show me I am not alone.
Crystal says
You could have been writing about me! My toddler also throws tantrums about the trailer becoming disconnected to his tractor. (And I have a hard time controlling my temper. I didn’t realize I had a temper until toddlerhood rolled around.) One thing I have become much better about is apologizing!
Rebekah says
The toddler years can definitely bring out the temper, or both momma and child! ๐ It is so good to know I’m not alone!
Sarah@NowOneFoot says
I have found those moments when I yell are so humbling and that just how I bring my failings and my humanity to Christ, I can also be an example and bring them to my toddler when I struggle with them in front of her, apologizing and talking to her about what causes it and how I’m trying to fix it (age appropriately, of course). In those moments are also opportunities to teach her about Christ and about his unending forgiveness and strength and example. I love the 1 Peter verse you called out. Such a powerful reminder!
Rebekah says
Yes!! This motherhood thing is hard, but it can help us to teach our littles great truths about Christ and his love!